I heard my husband crying in the bathroom at midnight 2am. I thought I was dreaming. I wanted to urinate at that time. At first, I wanted to ask what happened but i told myself to exercise patience .

I stood at the bathroom door and all I was hearing was “Please I’m sorry”,”Don’t leave me “

Eh!!!! What is happening. I listened to the whole conversation..His girlfriend was threatening to break up with him .

My husband is a warrior at home almighty soldier .No nonsense man. He has never apologized even when he is wrong. He is always so authoritative.

So I was shocked to see him crying.That woman must be so important to him. I needed to hear more. So I waited and surrender all my listening attention to the conversation. At this time I have brought out my phone for recording. He has a loud voice so he made it easier for me

Later ,he said I just sent 400k to you. I will make it up to you .Haaaaa.400k ??? I have been the one taken care of the homes finances since about four months when he complained he was broke …When I heard that ,I felt cheated ,I felted used ,I felt doomed .But still maintained my silence.

“Give me some times .I will restock your shop with new stocks.If I can open a shop for you why can’t I restock it. I’m sorry for asking you how the stocks went down .I’m sorry for asking you what you were using the money for.I know business sometimes can be funny so I understand you “

Heeeeeehhhhhh my head wanted to burst …I wanted to run m@d ….God …No man is actually strict .I will say this again .They are hard on you because they are not into you .They are actually so soft to someone else ..My husband opened a shop for a concubine and here i am playing the role of a breadwinner

I heard so many things from the conversation.He told the woman to learn different new styles for him and they planned to meet the following week .

I went back to bed .When it was morning .I went to meet him that there’s nothing to eat at home .This man said ,”Are you m@d ? Or are you just going m@d ? .Don’t you know what I’m passing through? Why then are you asking me for money ?” I said I am not m@d and he should stop being harsh on me over a simple request……

“How dare you talk while am talking ? When did this see finish start ? If you don’t shut up there ,I will beat h*ell out of you “

I am not your daughter that you can beat .Enough is enough I shouted back .In our eight years of marriage,I have never raised voice on my husband… He is so strict .I shake when standing in front of him because at any time slap may land ..So he was shocked at my response.I told him I am done being the husband that he should take over his responsibility…..

He said then watch your children starved .It’s not my business.Then I reply ,if you didn’t watch your concubine starved ,then you dare not watch my children starved .School has resumed and don’t forget their school fees and all if not we will drag each other to court .

He said ,which concubine ? I said the one you opened shop for and sent 400k to yesterday. And that you are going to meet next week for a sweet love making … His voice went down .

He said give me till next month .Borrow money and pay the children’s school fees then I will return it.

I laughed and told him that was me and not me again .As from now that I am speaking your responsibility has started .If you fail ,I will take you to court and escalate it.

He wanted to come close to sweet talk me but I told him to maintain his stand …My car that he takes to work I told him I will start using it tomorrow.He should go and fix his car .. I’m tired of running after busses in the morning when I have my own ride ..And I told him if he thinks he can do anything funny to me that my brothers already know what is happening .

I love God. Today being Monday rain was falling heavily he thought I would consider him .I entered my car and drove off …Before, I would have to be the one entering the rain and yet I have a car I bought with my earned money

He entered the house heavily wetted with rain this evening and it sweetened me …I was suppose to be that but I have gotten back my joy and freedom

The drama just started .No more shivering or getting scared of him. Hate for hate .Shout for shout

I can’t be cheated twice .I can’t be a fo*ol twice.