Milton
Before You Say Yes to That Date, Do This
- Look them up.
Don’t just rely on what they told you. Check their socials, Google their name, see the kind of energy they put out there. A person’s digital footprint says more than their sweet words. - Ask questions.
Don’t be shy to clarify their intentions. Are they looking for something serious or just passing time? The earlier you know, the less heartbreak later. - Choose a safe place.
First meetings should always be in public. Don’t let “vibes” carry you into a private setting with someone you barely know. Safety first, always. - Watch their manners.
How they treat waiters, cashiers, or even strangers around says a lot more about their character than how they treat you in that moment. - Don’t ignore red flags.
If something feels off, their tone, their story, their vibe, don’t excuse it in the name of “maybe I’m overthinking.” Your intuition is there for a reason.
Dating isn’t just about finding love.
It’s about protecting your heart, your time, and your dignity.
Never be so desperate to be chosen that you forget to choose wisely.
