“My husband has asked for a divorce cuz I said his “thing” is small. We had a little misunderstanding, & it got heated.

I didn’t mean it he started it first. I was ironing his shirt & accidentally burned it. He woke me up to iron at 5 am, & I still had to cook for our kids & iron their uniforms too. I was tired. He just started telling me I couldn’t do anything right, that i burnt the plantains i was preparing last night, & now his shirt. My husband is the type that talks too much & his words are always so annoying.

I’m not a quiet or calm person either but i always try as much as possible to control myself in order not to disrespect him unless I can’t take it anymore. He just kept going saying & he could see how I was sweating, even though the air conditioner was on cuz I’m chubby. He knows how much i hate being called or regarded as “Chubby”

All this happened around 5 am & all I said was that; at least I could lose weight one day, but he couldn’t make his “thing” bigger, than it is cuz it’s tiny, & I’m always just pretending to enjoy it when he makes love to me.

He remained silent & left the room. About 2 hours later, he came back & said he wanted me to leave in 6 days & that he wanted a divorce. I started begging him. But he said if I was still there in 6 days, he’d throw my things out & physically throw me out too. He said he’d call my mom out of respect later & explain that he’s had enough. He told me that, he can’t look at me the same way anymore

But He also mocked my weight. Why is he like this? Some concerned neighbors heard the noise & came to ask what was wrong coz they’ve never seen him angry like that but I couldn’t tell them; I asked my brother for advice, & he told me I touched my husband’s ego, & my marriage is over. He said my husband won’t forgive me. But he told me I should at least leave the house & let him calm down first.

I’m sorry; I didn’t think it would happen like this. His pnis isn’t that small. I was joking; I didn’t know I’d hurt him that much. Or thing will escalate to this stage. I hardly lose our fights & i felt he was winning. i was only looking for something that will hurt him for starting a fight with me in the first place & calling me chubby. i sincerely love my husband. This stress is too much for me pls i need guidance.”