Let’s assume the whole story is true for the purposes of this conversation. That a random tourist visited our country and had a field day with our women, married and otherwise, by picking them from the streets and in the markets one after another.

He secretly filmed the whole thing because he was not after sexual interests but rather an expose of our moral fabric. ‘Look at you and your women’ was the vibe.

The fact that the man didn’t have to go to red light districts or nightclubs to get women, what does it say about our society and our marriages?

There’s no point shooting the messenger. The message remains unchanged anyway.

The truth is that nobody who cheats that easily is doing it for the first time. Nobody who follows a stranger to his house cares about their safety or health.

What the man showed has been happening. He just happened to film it.

And for those crying foul, just remember that consensual intimacy between two adults is not a crime. It may be grounds for divorce or resolution of personal contracts, but it’s not a sexual offense.

The only crime the man committed was filming people without their consent.

Otherwise the whole story is just a mirror to the truth we’re all burying our heads from.

The love of money has gripped many to the point of a carefree attitude about their personal safety, let alone being loyal to their partners.

Are there women who resisted and whose stories were omitted? Maybe yes, maybe no. But we all know this truth: many of our daughters attribute Wazungu with dollar signs.

Our problem is not just poverty of money but rather poverty of morals and self respect.

This story is not the first and neither is it the last. We had the Equatorial Guinea saga and other scandals will follow for as long as the greed for easy money dominates our society.

A small warning to our daughters; there’s no free food at the end of a fish hook or inside a man’s wallet. Too often when you think you’re getting free lunch, you’re the lunch.

(©️ Benjamin Zulu Global)