Listen to me, son.

A woman cannot make you happy. Happiness is a man’s job. A woman can only amplify what’s already inside you. If you’re empty, she’ll drain you. If you’re full, she’ll multiply your peace.

Understand that most women are driven by emotion, security, and survival. They love what benefits them, not what builds you. Don’t hate them for it; just don’t be blind to it.

Marriage, to many women, is not about the man. It’s about image, safety, and validation. She sees you as a bridge to a better life, not always as a partner in the journey. Don’t be a fool.

I’m not saying don’t marry. I’m saying become the man first. Build your purpose, your structure, your frame. A family is only valuable when it fits into your mission, not when it pulls you off course.

Many men have traded their future and destiny for comfort. They’ve abandoned their goals to keep a woman who doesn’t even respect them. That’s not love; that’s slavery dressed as romance.

A woman truly loves a man she cannot control but can trust. Stop thinking she’s different. Learn female nature, not to hate them, but to master yourself.

I love my wife because she aligns with my mission. She fits into my frame. But I’m never naïve about the nature of women. I stay rooted in wisdom and duty, not emotion. If tomorrow things fall apart, I remain unshaken; because my foundation was never her.

Clear?