I was dating this married man about 35 – 40 years old. There’s no single week he didn’t call to ask that we meet for a game. As usual, he always blamed his wife for not satisfying him enough. He always said he wished he met me earlier because according to him, I was sweet down there and a whole lot.
I had a boyfriend back then and I had another guy who was sponsoring my education and other things. so, I was practically sleeping with all three of them but this married man slept with me the most. He couldn’t control himself one bit but he was an under one minute man so I didn’t really care about him. He paid for all our hotel expenses and always gave me nothing below 200k when we met.
When his wife put to birth, he made me aware cuz he wanted to use it as an excuse to have me as often as he desired. I figured later that my other sponsor had HIV, I quickly went to check and unfortunately, I was positive too. Meaning there was a likelihood the man and my bf had it.
I didn’t tell him anything, I located the wife and told her that her husband was my BF and that, I had just been diagnosed with HiV so she should check her status and if she happens to be negative, she should avoid her husband. Lucky for her, she was negative. She packed and left her husband. The man checked later and was positive.
He became angry with me for wrecking his home but I don’t regret it at all. The woman would have had it if she wasn’t pregnant and delivered so they weren’t having a game.
We’re all single and treating ourselves fearfully. I’ve had my Karma and I’m learning to live with it and so he should. Was I wrong to do what I did? Was I wrong in telling the wife?