I know this is against what you are used to hearing, but this is my reality that you should learn from. Since we started dating, there has never been a day where we faced each other, exchanging words or shouting at each other. In our worst moments, we still have respect for each other. When I get angry and express myself, she keeps quiet and listens.

When she is angry and expresses herself, I keep quiet and listen.

Afterward, we talk and not quarrel or exchange words.

No, it didn’t start after we got married; it started while we were dating.

It is a reality that you can also experience in your love life.

But the problem is you are hot-tempered and were told not to take nonsense.

In marriage you will take a lot of nonsense just for peace to reign.

At any small thing, you raise your voice, trying to prove a point to your boyfriend.

My wife has seen me at my worst, so there is no need to prove a point.

She does not need to prove to me that she is right, so when she is wrong, she accepts it.

I don’t need to prove to her that I am a nice guy, so when I am wrong, I keep quiet and make peace.

It starts from the relationship.

When you marry, you will be so close that if you have no respect for each other, you will always quarrel.

But you see all these singles, everyone is trying to prove that he or she is a “Jagaban.”

At any small thing, you want to show the man that you are a woman.

And those f3Miñísts who are teaching you to be equal with your husband—hehehehe.

Or those people teaching you to be alpha men.

Me, I am not alpha anything.

I am a sweet husband to my sweet wife, and I like it that way.

I love the way she pampers me, and I don’t want to be a king always.

Sometimes I just want to be that baby boy, make she dey rub my head.

Singles, Try to calm down.

Marriage is a love arena and not a war zone.

Please choose the one that will give you peace.