On my way to Lagos for the wedding of one of my Sons getting married to one of my daughters. The way my sons and daughters are getting married these days is beginning to make me feel I’m getting old o.

Anyway, I just thought to quickly address an issue this Saturday morning. it’s also part of the warning I gave to the groom while they were having their premarital counseling with me.
And it’s about breast sucking during sex between husbands and wives.

You see, dear husbands, there’s something your wives sincerely wish you know. It is that it’s true that women enjoy their nipples to be sucked during love making. But the way some of you husbands do it is wrong.

You see, quiet a number of you will just latch onto the delicate nipples and suck it like life depends on it or like you are feeding etc. Listen, whey you do that, it gives more of pain than pleasure. It is not how hard you suck that gives your wives pleasure. If hard sucking gives pleasure, your wives would have been having orgasms during breastfeeding. But ask many of them, we often feel pain when your babies grab the nipples and suck hard.

So you too, don’t do it like that. What gives your wives pleasure is a gentle suction with the lips and tongue. Don’t savage the nipples, savour it. Do you get? That’s how to give your wives optimal enjoyment of the process.

It’s Saturday, so most of you may likely be available for Jerusalem trips this evening. So take this hint now and adjust. Quite a number of wives are just keeping quiet because they don’t want to bruise your egos. But it’s my own job to help you by telling you. You should also find time to talk to each other about how you both prefer different things to be done. Don’t assume. Communication is the strongest factor in effective foreplay.

Yes I know, only TUSKY often talks about stuff like this publicly despite all the anointing she carries ??. Don’t worry, I’m still very born again and annointed. Someone has to address these issues. It’s my divine assignment to do so. Bear with me please.
Have a great week.

Thank you so much Mama for sharing this one.

Copied from Adetutu osofowora (TUSKY)

I am Janet Daniel Odo a USA certified Marriage and Family Counselor whose desires is to see you enjoy your marriage to the fullest.

Cheers.