We got married late last year. Before marriage, my husband told me he had a child. Before our wedding, my parents asked my husband’s parents if there were other children we didn’t know about. They also confirmed that my husband had only a child and nothing more.

Four months after marriage, I found out that my husband had two more children he didn’t talk about. The sad thing is, his mother is aware of one of those secret children but she denied knowledge before our marriage.

That aside, there are other revelations that are making me shiver in my spine. From my investigation, my husband cheated on the first baby mama on several occasions and was physically abusive. The woman is currently married to someone else but my husband doesn’t take care of their child.

The second baby mama was also treated very badly by my husband when she was pregnant. She was emotionally abused and was taken for granted. Currently, she is also married and doing Ok. She’s also taking care of the child all by herself.

The third baby mama, the one I knew before marriage is still bitter about how my husband treated her and is looking for an avenue to make my husband pay for what he did and the neglect of their child.

These revelations make me worried because these women are just like me. If he treated them this way, can I be treated any differently? I’m yet to confront my husband with these revelations but before I do, I need advice from you. How should I deal with this issue when I’m still in shock?