My Boyfriend says His Mum is the One to Approve Me As His Wife

My story is have been dating for a while now I mean a relationship that is more than 4 years
now that things are supposed to move to another level of which We’re making plans towards it
my guy is tuning into a total stranger. It started month before last that I should go and visit his family because he stays in Abuja while am here in Akwa ibom.

i was like ok I will soon, mind you I had visited his place 5 times since I get to know him.
but he has never visited mine only speaks to my siblings and they too know him so it was last month the mom called and was like she wants me to come to the village I told her I wasn’t chance that weekend but any weekend am free I would come but will inform her before coming.

The son keeps repeating and saying that I don’t like going to the village alone to go and pay a visit to his family except he is around and we go together I told him no that I have visited his family once alone and the 4times we went together when He came visiting.

Fast forward to today, we got talking and he came up with the talk of me not wanting to go to the village and pay a visit to his family, I was like av told you severely that I will go when am chanced or better till I will go once we’re done with exams in school because am a nursery school teacher and I also told you of all people should know me by nw that am not that kind of girl that loves showing my face in my relative place expecally my soon to be inlwas on my mind i was like why should I be going to his village more often meanwhile his hasn’t even come to my father’s compound before.