My Boyfriend of 4yrs told me to my face he has fallen out of Love for me, all he feels for me now is Hate
I’ve dated this guy for 4years now, we have been through thick and thin together. We met in our second year in university. While in school my boyfriend was really struggling to meet up his financial needs, I will make sure I support him pay his fees and rents so that he could have peace while studying. My parents were rich and I really had enough to share.
Our relationship went well until we graduated. We had lots of plans together, you will always find us together and time we will even wear matching outfits. After graduation we were both lucky to find jobs. To cut the story short, few months ago I realized I was pregnant and I told my boyfriend, I thought he would be happy but he said he’s not ready and we shouldn’t rush into having babies yet so he insisted we terminate the pregnancy, of which I did.
Ever since then he has been acting up and at times I’ll wonder what’s next with Regards to our relationship. So on this faithful day, I asked him if we could define our relationship because I really don’t understand his attitude anymore. Behold my boyfriend told me point blank that he doesn’t want me anymore and that what he feels for me right now is hatrëd and not love. He said he sees me like a pēst, and wishes I’m even dëäd or not in his life.
Jesus!!! Bl00d literally stopped flowing through my veins for some seconds after hearing all these. He really said hurtful words to me in the name of being honest. He said he has fallen out of love with me but couldn’t tell me because I’ve done nothing wrong but he really wishes I was out of his life so he could explore other options without feeling guilty or scared of being caught.
He said he feels absolutely nothing for me and wouldn’t want to be with me even if I’m given to him for free plus all the money in the world. This made me cry bítterly because I sacrificed my time, money, energy and dreams for this guy, We’ve been together for 4 years and I supported his education and even rented him a place to stay.
I am really hurt that he could say such words to me in the name of fallen out of love. I just have so many unanswered questions, what did I really do? How can I make him love me back. I don’t want to end things because I’ve invested a lot. What can I do, please i need advice. I really do Love this guy.
