Please, I need advice regarding my marriage. I’ve been married for 3 years as of July 10th, but I’ve never been happy for a full week. Every small issue leads to talk of divorce from him. In our second-to-last problem, he even took our marriage certificate to a pastor, insisting on divorce, but it was settled. In our latest issue, he again mentioned divorce. Truthfully, I’ve wanted a divorce since our first year, but I hoped things would improve.
He contributes almost nothing except giving me 5,k a week for cooking. I brought 6OOk into the marriage, all of which I used to support his business, which he squandered. I even gave him 2OOk to add and b,uy land, but I still don’t know where that land is.
I need a lawyer in Port Harcourt to handle this divorce he has been preaching about because I’m fed up. There was a time he mentioned this divorce, and I told him I am ready, that I am calling a lawyer to handle it. He was pleading, and I forgave him.
He even accused me of infidelity, even when he knew married women don’t cheat in my family. I had an ectopic pregnancy in my second year of marriage, which nearly took my life, but still, he threatens me that he will get another woman pregnant.
He’s been sending people to tell me to leave the house, or he will involve his uncle to make me pack out on my own and get m@d or drop something on the floor for me that will make me paralysed. However, I want to handle things properly since we’ve been married traditionally, in court, and through a wedding.
I really need a job because I don’t even have where to pack my things to. I’m so depressed ?. I won’t mind relocating to any state or country. I have Higher National Diploma in Accounting .