We had an affair from 2013 to late 2014 when we broke up. Then I met my husband in 2015, and we got married in November 2016 after I found out I was pregnant. This man and I pretended not to know each other because I didn’t think my husband would be happy to know of our past. We just pretended it was our first time meeting and moved on.

But after that meeting, he searched and texted me on Facebook. We exchanged contacts and started talking. He claimed to have missed me and had been searching for me. He said he badly wanted us back.

He is still not married. He’s 37 years old. I told him I wasn’t interested, especially now that I’m married to his friend and with kids, I couldn’t give him a chance.

At first, he said okay, but he kept pressuring me later on till I finally agreed to meet him somewhere, lo and behold he managed to get me to lay with him.

It was the first time I did something behind my husband, Bro Kwaku. I felt bad and wished it had never happened. I texted him expressing how I disliked what had happened and asked him to stay away.

I don’t know what happened, but it’s like I get softer every day because he came to beg me, and before I realised, we had had $e×× “again like thrice.

Though I felt sorry each day that passes, it’s almost like I couldn’t resist him. I always saw him and he always touched me.

Kwaku, I’m pregnant now for him. My husband actually knows about it already, and he thinks it’s his. We didn’t want to have kids again, but hubby says I should keep this. I really want to remove it and pretend this never happened. I feel this child alone could ruin my home and reputation one day, but I don’t know how.

I need your humble opinions on this please, I’m confused.