You’re a man.
- Date in silence.
- Marry in silence.
- Struggle in silence.
- Win in silence.
- Even lose in silence.
The less they know, the stronger you stand.
Men, privacy isn’t weakness. Its power.
- Always Put Purpose Over Her
Your purpose must come before everything, even her.
If you drop your mission every time she calls, you’re showing her that she’s the center of your world. That’s flattering for a moment… but long-term, it kills attraction.
Purpose gives you direction, focus, and masculine energy. Without it, you’re just drifting, and no woman wants to follow a man who’s lost.
Purpose first. Woman second. Always.
- Never Make Her Fully Independent of You
This is controversial, but hear this:
When a woman becomes too independent of her man, she starts to believe she doesn’t need him, and often, she acts accordingly.
This doesn’t mean you control her life. It means you build a healthy interdependence, where you lead and she follows with trust. Never upgrade her life above yours, keep some gap where she’ll always look up to you.
Masculine energy provides, protects, and leads. Feminine energy submits, nurtures, and supports.
A woman who screams “I don’t need a man” is already halfway out the door.
- Never Forgive Infidelity From a Woman
If she cheats, it’s over. Period.
The moment you forgive her betrayal, she loses respect for you. She knows you value her more than you value your self-respect.
Women test boundaries. If you let cheating slide, she’ll push even harder next time and cheat more.
There’s no recovery after infidelity.
You may love her, but love without respect is weakness. Take note brodie.






