1. LEARN TO LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE: Lots of men are very impatient with their wives. They don’t listen. The few who dies do so to pass judgment not to understand. You must learn to listen to understand your woman, it makes you so hot and endearing.
2. BE HER ROLE MODEL: You can’t tell your wife to do things you yourself are not doing. Respect does not fall down from heaven like manna. You must work for it. Earn her respect by being her role model. Whatever you don’t want her to do, don’t do it as well.
3. PAY YOUR BILLS ON TIME: it’s a sin to have money and not pay bills. Don’t subject your wife and kids to landlord, NEPA and school’s embarrassment. Save her face, save her pride. Keep her from the shame of insult from these people, pay your bills on time.
4. FEED YOUR WIFE: Give her good money to get good food. You can’t be eating goat meat and beer in beer parlours while your wife and children soak garri from morning till night. That attitude attracts a curse. Men like that don’t prosper. Make your wife happy by feeding, clothing and taking good care of her.
5. ADMIRE HER: Every woman loves to be admired by her husband. I rushed to the studio yesterday to have a picture because hubby keeps telling me am so beautiful, smart, attractive, etc. I was so loving all through the day and love making was definitely hot, very hot! Stop abusing her. It will not change her but rather make her bitter. You can correct in love but don’t abuse. Women hate to be abused. Praise, admire, celebrate and adore your wife.
6. BE PATIENT WITH HER: Women don’t handle pressure like men do. A woman can be nasty under pressure. She doesn’t mean to hurt you. She simply does not know a better way to handle things. Be patient with her. Show her compassion, love and understanding. She will soften down and stop screaming or shouting all over the places.
7. DON’T REPORT YOUR WIFE TO YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY: Only boys do that. Be a man. Learn to handle your differences with maturity. If you must report her to anybody, report her to God and talk to a marriage counsellor. Keep your friends and family members out of your family affairs.
8. DATE YOUR WIFE OVER AND OVER AGAIN: Take her out. Get out of the rut. Go to eateries, book an hotel, attend a dating programme. It does not have to be every time, just break away from boredom, make marriage exciting for her.
9. ASSIST WITH CHORES: Especially for a woman to goes to work from morning, comes back in the evening and still cook, wash, sweep and arrange the house can be back breaking. That’s why a lot of women are looking older than their husbands. The bulk of the work rests on their feeble shoulders. Assist your wife with chores. Make marriage easier for her. Let her soul bless you. Make her happy.
10. MAKE SEX ENJOYABLE FOR HER: If women will be arriving at orgasm every time they have sex, no married woman will run from sex. Make sex enjoyable for your wife, she will always look forward to it. Don’t just come in and go out. Don’t seek your pleasure only. Seek to pleasure her. Make her happy being sexually intimate with you.
11. PRAY FOR HER: We need prayers. Women need prayers on daily basis. We are nation builders, home makers, destiny molders, life transformers. A lot rests on our shoulders. As you lift your wife to the Lord in prayer, He will renew her strength, eliminate her weaknesses and help her become the super loving, sweet, gentle, submissive wife you have always dreamt of.