I am a woman in my early thirties, and I find myself in a Heartbreaking situation that I never thought I’d face

Several years ago, I married the love of my life, a wonderful man with whom I shared dreams and aspirations. Our marriage was filled with love, laughter, and mutual support. But 4 months ago, my husband faced a significant setback. He lost his job due to unforeseen circumstances, and ever since then, our lives have taken a dramatic turn. Financial struggles have consumed us, and the burden has become too heavy to bear.

As the sole breadwinner now, I’ve been working tirel3ssly to keep our heads above water. The str3ss and pr3ssure have taken a t0ll on both of us, and I can feel the love and connection we once had going away.

I know he didn’t choose to lose his job, but I can’t help but feel frustr@ted with the situation we’re in. It seems like our once solid foundation is now crumbling.

I stopped giving him $ex because I don’t love him anymore. Sometimes I sleep in a different room to avoid his disturbance. All he does in day time is to eat morning, afternoon and night and search for jobs online in between meals. He doesn’t care much about how I am sustaining him and our two kids. After all the day’s stress at work, when I come back home in the evening I will still be the one to cook and after dinner he will still want to play with me after all the str3ss.

I have told him since I am now the breadwinner he has to be doing all the sweeping, cleaning, washing, cooking and other household chores plus school run. But he disagreed, saying he can only do school run and that my plan to turn him into a woman will fail.

Please I need advice here. Is it wrong to ask hubby to help out with house chores ? I can’t continue being the head of the house for four months providing for my husband and kids and still be the one doing all the house chores.