7 Pointers Your Partner Maybe Cheating On You

Just yesterday, I read a touching story where a woman was lamenting how her husband, who is a deacon in the church, cheated on her with one of the female Corp members that served in her husband’s establishment.

After her service, her husband retained her among all the other female Corp members that served in the company.

Unknown to her, her husband got married to this lady, bought a house for her somewhere in Lagos and even impregnated her. She just gave birth to twins and the woman even went to congratulate her without knowing that those kids belong to her hubby.

It was through a sister that is close to her that’s working in the hospital where this female corp member was delivered of her babies that revealed this secret to her and ever since then, she has been lamenting and confused.

All the man family members are aware of this except this woman. They kept her in the dark. This woman has 2 kids o not that she’s barren or anything.

When I read that story, I was pained. This is total betrayal. She even asked the man what she did wrong and the man said nothing. I really feel for her. That’s what inspired this article.

Cheating is not only when you’re sleeping with someone when you’re in a relationship with someone else. When you start developing feelings for someone else other than your partner, that’s cheating, an emotional affair. That’s where cheating normally starts from m

Maybe you are in a relationship and you’re doubting your partner’s faithfulness to you, below are few pointers he or she maybe cheating on you.

1. Lying
   Lying means to give false information about something to someone. It also means deception.

So, when your partner always tells something which you later found out to a lie mostly often, that maybe a pointer he’s cheating, vice versa.

2. Keeps Secrets
   He tells you nothing about himself. She hides her where about, movement from you. You know nothing about his or her next movement. Doesn’t want you to know her or his place, friends, working place etc., that maybe a pointer too.
3. Hides To Answer Calls
   Whenever a particular call comes in, he moves away from you to answer or runs into the room to answer, he is hiding something. Maybe, whenever a particular call comes in, he keeps cutting it, something is fishy, vice versa.
4. No Single Text Message
   There are people that when you get to their text box, it will look like what they did environmental sanitation. You won’t find one single message not even one from network providers or bank.

I’m aware that there are people who don’t like leaving text messages in their phones but also there those who hides things from their partner by deleting messages. This too may be a pointer.

5. No Call History
   There are those their call history is swept clean like it’s a new phone. This too maybe a pointer.
6. Password
   There are people who password everything in their phones, message, social media app, gallery, call history etc.

Why password everything if there’s nothing to hide. A clear conscience they say fears no accusation. Some combine face recognition with finger print plus pin. What are you hiding..?

7. No Touching Of Phones
   There are so many men that have left their wives with a standing warning never to get close to their phones talk less of touching it or picking their calls. The same with many women.

When you find yourself in this kind of situation, it may be a pointer that something is not right. Why will you restrict your partner from touching your phone or going through your chats and messages if there’s nothing to hide?

Note: these pointers may not be entirely true but peradventure you see these pointers. Ask questions for clarification.

Cheating is evil, desist from it. It’s better you don’t go into a relationship. Stay single and flex to your own peril. Your sin will find you out one day, it’ll painful.

Thanks for reading