4 Things Single Ladies Must Not Believe About Relationships

Dear single ladies, let me share with you 4 things you must not believe about relationship.

1. Don’t Believe that Relationship Will Cover Your Weakness: Some rush into relationship thinking it will hide their weaknesses. The truth is that, relationship is a revealer and a magnifier. If you have any weakness, deal with it so it will not deal with your relationship when you get into it.
2. Don’t Believe That Relationship Will Credit Your Bank Account: If you think getting into a relationship will make you richer , you have a wrong belief system. It is true that your fiance should give you money when the need arises but if you think he will become your ATM , you might be disappointed. Instead of looking for a guy you will always collect money from, why can’t you build your financial life so you too can be a blessing to him. Healthy relationship is about give and take. It is not just about taking and taking.
3. Don’t Believe That Relationship Will Cage You: The reason why many ladies are afraid of getting into relationship and Marriage is because they believe it will cage them and cage their dreams and visions in life. While it is true that it is happening to some people like that, it does not mean it will happen to you. Let God choose for you. We still have many men that will give you wings to soar and reach the zenith of your vision. Change your wrong belief system.
4. Don’t Believe That Relationship Will Change A fool Guy To A wise Guy: Don’t date or get Engage with a fool. Before you accuse me of calling someone a fool, know that the Bible refer to so many people as fools. If you are dating a fool and you think your relationship with him will change him to a wise person, you might be disappointed. He might succeed in making you become like a fool just as he is.
   Don’t date a fool. Don’t marry a fool!

Hope you pick a message from this?