“My Husband Is Such A Good Man But He’s Not Sweet In Bed”

“My husband is such a good man but he’s not sweet in bed. It’s been 7 years of our marriage and i don’t think i can continue with this marriage anymore.
I can’t tell him because I don’t want him to feel bad nor in anyway hurt his ego, So, a year after our marriage, i met my ex. We dated in secondary school. We never break-up, we were only separated by distance and the relationship later got sour. Some how, we started seeing each other again, been going on for 6 years now. But to be honest, the only reason i started seeing my ex again in the first place was only to satisfy my sx_su@l needs but i later realized that am still very much in love with him & he loves me too..

But, now its really hard for me to leave my husband because he’s a good man. He’s been so nice to me and my family. When i met him that time, I had just lost my dad and things were so difficult for i and my family But he saved us from hardship & poverty. Sponsoring my brother’s visa & trip to Canada and helped me complete my education and even build a small house for mom in the village. Also opened up a business for her. It’s thanks to him that am a graduate and now working as a nurse.

Truth is, I really loved him back then, With all the above mentioned. I feel for him. I don’t want to see him get hurt cos i know how much that he loves me. But, Its obvious that am only with him now cos of pity. I love my ex so very much & his the father of our my 3 kids.. We wish to get married. Pls help me, how do i make my husband understand this without hurting his feelings. am 33yrs old, still a young woman & i also deserve a sweet love life including my s-xsu@l needs. Which, its obvious i can never get with my husband..”