Now Am Confused If I Should Go Ahead And Marry Him As A Second Wife

Please hide my identity. I’m 33years Muslim, a single mother of two boys, and I’m working, so I’m able to provide for my kids. Four years ago, I started dating a married christian man who loved me together with my sons, he was more than than a father to my sons, he was very supportive and even helped me get several helps to finish my projects.

However, he told me he can’t marry me because his religion doesn’t allow polygamy, but he advised me when I’m ready to settle, find a man who will be ready to marry me he will gladly let go n bless my marriage. Few months ago I met a Muslim man who’s married and now he has proposed to marry me as a second wife although he want it to be a secret from his wife and family. He’s a good man and every woman’s dream and rich too.

Now I’m confused if I should go ahead and marry him as a second wife or I remain dating this christian man who has already declared having no future with me. Both men love me but I’m worried about this issue of being a secret wife. Will it work?…. Please advise.